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		<title>By: Lawren Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lawren Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 03:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you about the job thing.  I don&#039;t hate what I do, but what makes working so awful for me is working for other people.  There is so much you have to take in order to get a measly paycheck.  

Our whole lives are governed by our jobs. Think about it.  Our jobs control where we live, what we can afford to buy, what time we get up in the morning, what time we come home, how much we get paid, etc.  It is no wonder we can even think for ourselves and probably as we get holder, thinking gets harder to do. 

I made a decision a few years back, after a number of downsizings and going through a lot of emotional, difficult times, that I did not want to work for anybody anymore.  I did some research on home-based businesses and decided that I would prefer to just work for myself.  

I am a member of a home-based business, and yes it is hard to do because often it feels like you are working two full-time jobs, but the reason it is so difficult is because I have never owned a business before and I am learning.  Part of the process of learning new things, you also make mistakes and even fail, but I am determined this is what I want.  

Four years have gone by and I have started making some money, my businesses are growing. I forgot to mention, I also own real estate.  I own 6 properties.  Once I make a decision to change things in my life, I go all the way.  

My health has been getting worse over the years because of stress at my job.  I am a software engineer.  If I don&#039;t get out of the job situation soon, I can see my health getting worse.  I see within the next year or two to be able to walk away from my career and spend more time at home.  My skills as a business woman have become quite developed over the years.

Thank you for letting me share....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you about the job thing.  I don&#8217;t hate what I do, but what makes working so awful for me is working for other people.  There is so much you have to take in order to get a measly paycheck.  </p>
<p>Our whole lives are governed by our jobs. Think about it.  Our jobs control where we live, what we can afford to buy, what time we get up in the morning, what time we come home, how much we get paid, etc.  It is no wonder we can even think for ourselves and probably as we get holder, thinking gets harder to do. </p>
<p>I made a decision a few years back, after a number of downsizings and going through a lot of emotional, difficult times, that I did not want to work for anybody anymore.  I did some research on home-based businesses and decided that I would prefer to just work for myself.  </p>
<p>I am a member of a home-based business, and yes it is hard to do because often it feels like you are working two full-time jobs, but the reason it is so difficult is because I have never owned a business before and I am learning.  Part of the process of learning new things, you also make mistakes and even fail, but I am determined this is what I want.  </p>
<p>Four years have gone by and I have started making some money, my businesses are growing. I forgot to mention, I also own real estate.  I own 6 properties.  Once I make a decision to change things in my life, I go all the way.  </p>
<p>My health has been getting worse over the years because of stress at my job.  I am a software engineer.  If I don&#8217;t get out of the job situation soon, I can see my health getting worse.  I see within the next year or two to be able to walk away from my career and spend more time at home.  My skills as a business woman have become quite developed over the years.</p>
<p>Thank you for letting me share&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
		<link>http://heartscraps.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/im-so-torn/#comment-208</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 19:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with what everyone else has said!!
Hang in there it will all wotk out .. We always have to overcome little bumps in the road to get where we want and what we want in life!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with what everyone else has said!!<br />
Hang in there it will all wotk out .. We always have to overcome little bumps in the road to get where we want and what we want in life!!</p>
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		<title>By: leah</title>
		<link>http://heartscraps.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/im-so-torn/#comment-207</link>
		<dc:creator>leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 19:02:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hang in there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hang in there.</p>
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		<title>By: tami</title>
		<link>http://heartscraps.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/im-so-torn/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator>tami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 23:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>can you make a list of costs vs pros and cons of a job and see where you come out. if you just need to make a little money than maybe a part time job someplace might work out. i know you need health benefits as well.  sorry you are dealing with all this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>can you make a list of costs vs pros and cons of a job and see where you come out. if you just need to make a little money than maybe a part time job someplace might work out. i know you need health benefits as well.  sorry you are dealing with all this.</p>
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		<title>By: christine</title>
		<link>http://heartscraps.wordpress.com/2008/04/29/im-so-torn/#comment-204</link>
		<dc:creator>christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 21:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh how i&#039;ve had this thought a time or two. i mean i love my job but sometimes i get like..maybe i should be doing something else. then i think about going outside the home, not being on my schedule and i know the thoughts i had were crazy. there&#039;s nothing like staying home and being available. just my thoughts! hugs to you Jan, i&#039;m sure you will find the right solution for you and your family!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh how i&#8217;ve had this thought a time or two. i mean i love my job but sometimes i get like..maybe i should be doing something else. then i think about going outside the home, not being on my schedule and i know the thoughts i had were crazy. there&#8217;s nothing like staying home and being available. just my thoughts! hugs to you Jan, i&#8217;m sure you will find the right solution for you and your family!</p>
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